Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Mistakes...

The second second one!

Seems like some mad hunger (or should I say thirst? ) to blog ..
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I guess I had written this earlier in my blog. In life, avoid doing mistakes. Especially when you have a feel that what you are doing might not be correct. Its not about "not taking a risk". Calculated risks have to be taken to make life interesting, but mistakes and risks are not synonymous.
When you do mistakes, quite knowingly, just to have some short term fun, you might end up losing your credibility, peace of mind and "fun" in the longer run.
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Suppose that a change in your ways of thinking, leads you to behave in a way which causes trouble to someone else , how do you manage it ? This particular question needs an answer

5 comments:

Swathi said...

There are 2 sibilings Mythri and Mithra, both r of different nature and attitude.Mythri use to show love and affection on Mithra and use to do all the activites that makes Mithra happy. But Mithra inturn doesn't do anything to Mythri.
One day Mythri meets Sneha and Sneha is more or less like Mythri. The relation b/w Mythri and Sneha grows with the gap b/w Mythri and Mithra.
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In the above story for Mythri before meeting Sneha, Mithra is the only world. But after meeting Sneha without her intension she replaces Mithra with Sneha as a result Mythri will be spending much time with Sneha.

Mithra is the responsible person for the change in Mythri and the change brings trouble to Mithra.

So always clear-up the misunderstanding.......bla bla before reaching the bearing-point.

One has to lie in the bed one has made

Anonymous said...

:)

Lakshmi said...

Definition of good/bad/and unknown change
Good – if advised by many seasoned/experienced people or is a proven change
Bad – Reverse of good
Unknow – which is an experimental change, where you don’t have much facts to validate whether it is good or bad


Depends on the type of change in thinking
1) If type of change is good
 if it is troubling unknown people then just ignore
 if it is troubling known people then justify it and explain them Why you are implementing the change and what you are expecting from the change and whether it is worth to take the troubles or not.
2) If type of change is bad or unknown
Try to know the troubles it is causing to others and refine/correct the change

loop said...

Krishna,
Thanks! Nice answer..
But then sometimes the mistakes that wud have happened through the decisions would be so severe that it takes a lot of guts to explain it and very little or no ways to undo the mistakes .

Lakshmi said...

Thanks Indira,

Mistakes are Mistakes

As long as one learns from it and ensures that the same mistake is not repeated then it is fine.

Mistakes teach a lot as long as he/she is learning from it.

We can’t set right what had happened. If you keep worrying about the past then you are loosing the time that should be utilized in a much better way.

Don’t repent on History but learn for it to make the future better.

According to me…no one makes mistakes intentionally, mistakes are realized when results are going worse or not as expected.

The person who makes the most number of mistakes in a subject would be the expert in that subject as time goes.